Bridal Boudoir Photography As a Wedding Present

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Bridal Boudoir Photography as a wedding present.

Boudoir photography is a growing trend and more and more women of all shapes and sizes are having these photo shoots. Bridal boudoir photography makes a truly unique wedding present and one of the best times to go for a photo shoot is a few weeks before your wedding day. You can then have the photos printed in a display box or made into an album. This left with a cheeky note to your husband to be saying “Meet me at the altar” will make the best present he is ever likely to get.

So what exactly is Boudoir?

Boudoir photography is more than just showing flesh, it is the art of flirtation through photography. And like many other art forms it allows the viewer to explore the unknown, use their imagination and leave them wanting more. It must not be confused with Glamour and certainly is not pornographic! Your photographer should be an expert in the use of props, lighting and positioning to get the most from your body and accentuate your best features.

What can I expect from the photo shoot?

All photographers conduct their photo shoots differently. They may range in timescale from maybe 1 hour to half a day. It really does depend on who you’ve booked. My advice would be to chat to the photographer either over the phone or in person before booking the shoot. You will then get a feel for how it will all go and importantly how relaxed you feel and how well you will get on with your photographer. A typical photo shoot at my studio will start with a cup of tea or even a glass of fizz together with chat to go over some ideas and themes for the shoot. You will then spend about an hour or so with Laura, my hair and makeup artist, who will completely transform you. The photo shoot itself should take between 1 and 2 hours using a number of outfit changes, props, furniture and backgrounds. You can then go home still looking stunning with your hair and makeup done or hit the town with your girlfriends. A couple of weeks later after the photo’s have been fully edited, you will return to the studio to view your pictures to decide which ones you want and which products you may want to use to display your photographs.

Choosing the best photographer.

This can be a big decision and you want to get it right because as this is for a wedding present you only really have one chance. I would firstly consider if you are happy with either a male or female photographer because this could rule out half of the options straight away. Most importantly you should look at the photographer’s website. This will give you examples of their style of boudoir photography, their props and backdrops and also their hair and makeup.

Negotiating With the Government

I have had the opportunity to negotiate with a number of government agencies for clients, and there is a difference between private industry and administrative agencies and how you should approach them. Research into the “Attorney’s Practice Guide To Negotiations, 2nd Edition” by Donner & Crowe also provides many general considerations when negotiating with the government. In this column, I will share a few thoughts and considerations on the topic to assist you in your next negotiation with a government agency.

Administrators often have an objective that is grounded in public policy rather than in furthering monetary or other less principled goals. While some may say this about every interaction or negotiation, it is especially true that the first step in any negotiation with an administrative agency is to establish a good working relationship. As long as the negotiator acknowledges that social welfare must play a role in the process, it is usually possible for private entities to negotiate with administrative bodies in a friendly, cordial manner, without turning to combative techniques.

When litigating against an administrative agency, it can often be difficult to craft a monetary settlement which will resolve the matter due to the political nature of many administrative agendas. These agendas often have more weight in the matter than mere monetary matters. Additionally, private parties that have long-term stakes in the resolution of the particular case may have a stronger interest in precedent, making it all the more important that their attorneys focus their attack on those aspects of the case which are governed by some aspect of public policy. Therefore, it can be very advantageous to bargain rather than litigate with administrators.

In a short summary of advantages to good faith bargaining versus litigating with administrators by Peter H. Schuck, Yale Law School, as quoted in the Attorney’s Practice Guide To Negotiations, 2nd. Edition,” he includes such reasons as unearthing solutions lying between those extreme positions that will be asserted by the parties in litigation, exposing the true intensity of the preferences rather than exaggerating those intensities, and stimulating the flow of information between the parties rather than constricting interparty communication. Schuck also acknowledges the important advantage that because a bargained solution is essentially voluntary and emerges from a process that helps build consensus, it is likely to generate support by both parties for its implementation. Therefore, a cooperative philosophy, while limited in value in some contexts, is of particular importance in the context of administrative matters.

Sometimes it can be easy to get caught up in the adversarial process and forget how important it is to strive for a friendly, productive relationship with an administrator or regulator. It is basic human nature to be more receptive and trusting to someone you know and remember. It might be a good idea to remember the old cliché, “You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar” the next time you have to deal with a government agency. This saying suggests you can win people to your side more easily by gentle persuasion and flattery than by hostile confrontation, and it can be especially true when dealing with government agencies.

Usually, the first contact with the agency by an attorney is in the form of a letter informing the agency that the attorney has been retained. The letter should be firm and professional, and should indicate a willingness to reach an amicable solution. Harsh or threatening initial contact may cause the agency to develop an overly defensive attitude that may hamper or frustrate future negotiations. Establishing a favorable first impression with the agency and its counsel can go a long ways toward successful bargaining.

Establishing a relationship of mutual trust and respect between the parties creates a greater likelihood that a settlement will be reached. Additionally, any future relationship between the parties will be easier. To assist this process, we should demonstrate our commitment to cooperation from the outset. We must convince the agency, or the agency attorney, that not only are his or her best interests being considered, but those of public interest are as well. There are many ways of effectively appealing to the aesthetic needs of the agency, but one of the most simple is to remember the golden rule and treat those you are dealing with the same as you want to be treated. Respect and consideration go a long way in all negotiations, but especially when dealing with government agents that may often be the recipients of hostile communications over policies they are required to enforce but did not enact. One then must remember to keep their commitment to cooperation throughout the entire negotiation process, even if it ends up being litigated.

While the advice in this column will help most negotiations settle, there are situations when your client’s concerns may not be addressed and it will be necessary to consider the possibility of filing suit. If you exhaust every other means of recourse, and you have been unable to negotiate a satisfactory settlement of obtain a favorable decision from an administrator, a lawsuit may be appropriate. This may also aid your negotiations and is why I stated above that you must keep your commitment to cooperation even during litigation. Filing suit can be useful to encourage administrators to rethink their positions and will also allow for the participation of counsel who may not otherwise have been involved. If you have established a relationship of mutual trust, the lawsuit may be only a stepping stone toward settlement rather than an ugly adversarial quagmire that they can sometimes become. The bottom line is that attorneys must always keep their client’s goals in mind and recognize that negotiations with the government are often different from those with private industry and therefore negotiation strategies and tactics must conform to the situation at hand.

The Best Debt Negotiation Companies

What should you expect from the best debt negotiation companies?

The best debt negotiation companies can work with basically anyone to reduce the amount of their debt. By negotiating with collection agencies and creditors to reduce the amount of debt, clients are able to settle their debt for 30 – 70% of the original balance. Other forms of debt elimination simply move the debt from an unsecured card, to a secured asset. This lowers the interest rate, which is a good thing. But it doesn’t eliminate the debt. Its still there, but now its against your home or other hard asset.

Look for a company that is always looking out for their clients. They are members of the Better Business Bureau, or of an organization like the Consumer Recovery Network. These companies will make sure that their clients become debt free in the shortest possible time.

Make sure you ask plenty of questions. Become an informed consumer.

The best debt negotiation companies won’t make promises they have no way of keeping. They cannot “guarantee” that they will be able to arrange reductions in the balance of all of your debt. Some creditors just won’t deal. While most credit card debt can be reduced substantially, there are creditors that simply will not budge. Many debts can be settled for pennies on the dollar, in fact most – but by no means, all. I’m just being honest here.

A knowledgeable company wont tell you to completely break off all contact with your creditors. I’ve actually talked to clients who had worked with programs that told them to tell the creditor to never call them again. The problem with this strategy is that it leaves the creditor very little options for collecting the debt. It will most likely speed up the process of legal action. While it may be advisable to tell your creditors to not call you at work, you certainly don’t want to break off contact entirely. Keep the lines of communication open. It makes it much easier to resolve the debt.

The best debt negotiation companies won’t guarantee that they will be able to remove information from your credit report, when that information is perfectly accurate. Many collection agencies, and creditors, will remove information after they are paid. They really have no vested interest in leaving it there. Why would they care, they have their money. So negotiating that the creditors listing be removed or altered as a part of the settlement works in a large number of cases, but not 100 percent of the time.

The caveat to this, is that you may only need to remove a couple of negative accounts to raise your score to an acceptable level. So you may not need to remove 100 percent of the negative data to have a positive effect.

The best debt negotiation companies will give you the costs up front.

Professional help with debt negotiation can be a tremendous asset in alleviating problem debt. These companies can also cause a number of problems. If you have decided to negotiate, eliminate and settle your debt, the best debt negotiation companies are the best place to start.